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Our care for John a 'real life changer'

Blog post   •   Aug 05, 2016 11:25 BST

ellenor patient John Palmer holding the London 2012 Olympic Torch

John Palmer was a keen gardener and nature lover.  He took a great interest in wildlife, including building homes for hedgehogs. He also loved watching all types of sport, while he brewed his own beer.  He enjoyed baking and producing jars of pickled onions.

John took early retirement in 1995 at the young age of 48 after working on the river from the age of 15 with the Port of London Authority (PLA) joining the crew of the survey launch ‘Havengore’ as the junior hand. He was very proud to have been part of the crew when the ‘Havengore’ carried Sir Winston Churchill’s coffin up river after his funeral in 1965.

John first came into contact with ellenor after he was diagnosed with terminal cancer and underwent his first round of chemotherapy. This left him unable to do anything outside, without his family accompanying him, but after being introduced to ellenor, the team arranged for handrails to be fitted by the steps in his front garden so he could enjoy some independence once again.

“This gave him more confidence to leave the house unaccompanied and lead to him becoming more independent,” says Margaret, John's sister.

John began attending Day Therapy weekly at ellenor Gravesend, something which Margaret says was a ‘real life changer’.

“It gave him something to look forward to each week and it meant he met other people in similar circumstances, some of whom he became good friends with,” she says. “Before attending your sessions, he had been a solitary person but coming to Day Therapy made him more gregarious. He was more than happy to be in the company of others and this only added to the improvement in his quality of life which he gained because of ellenor.”

Margaret says that John very much enjoyed his lunches and would text her and her daughter Sharron to let them know what was on the menu that day.

“He thoroughly enjoyed the social side of the day, playing games or taking part in, and sometimes setting, quizzes,” says Margaret. “There were treats on birthdays and, of course, the wonderful Christmas meals.”

She adds: “For us, as a family, it meant that for one day a week, we could relax, knowing that he was being looked after. We knew he would see a health professional who would notice if anything untoward was happening and this greatly eased our concerns.”

At the end of his life, a place was found on the ward at ellenor Gravesend for John.

“He spent his last days being looked after for in the most special of ways,” says Margaret. “The care he received was exemplary beyond words and made the end of his life as good as it could possibly be, for him and us also. For this, we thank ellenor from the bottom of our hearts.”

She adds: “We can honestly say that ellenor really improved John’s final years beyond imagination, from what they might have been.”

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